Back from a very stressful few days in the city. Event one was an appointment to see my Cardiologist about the slow growing aneurism in my heart. Scar tissue from two previous surgeries to the aortic valve have slowed its progress so this was a follow up after an exam in mid-October. Three hour drive on northern Canada roads in January to get there only to find the appointment had been cancelled without telling me. Plus the cardiac clinic is so booked there was no one else to see me–too bad the system has no awareness of what this does to people and their families with chronic health problems. Communication failures are 100% common so it’s back to phoning before appointments and understanding that there is no one to look after you, so you better be tough or you die.
After that screw-up my appointment with the new Oncologist happened the next day. She’s a nice person who answered questions to things I’d never been told because my assigned oncologist quit, my family doctor is never available and people who “treat” me at the branch clinic DO NOT answer questions. It was a nice interview that resolved nothing as I can’t be treated at the main clinic because it’s six hour return drive with the blood test one day and if my platelets are good, chemo the next. Since I usually don’t pass on the first try and you don’t know if you passed until the following day, each treatment “day” involves 4 long days for two of us plus 12 hours mid-week driving.
With the rural service I can get blood taken in the morning at the hospital a few blocks from my house on Tuesdays and know by 3:00 PM that day if I “pass” and if so I only lose one day to driving and infusion on Wednesday. If not, it’s back to give blood the next Tuesday and only an hour lost. The people at the main center are nice but are set up for locals only and make it very difficult for someone from out-of-town to be treated.
This is supposed to be a Provincial medical system but city and country services are not comparable. At least in the country I know my treatment will be sloppy, unprofessional and performed by people I don’t trust or like. But it beats city people who are the same type with better manners who will kill you just the same.
At least now that we’ve seen my new Oncologist it’s obvious the whole idea of trust is an illusion. Medical people I deal with are technicians and being a person just isn’t part of the game.